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Tell Us How You Really Feel, 2019 New Masculinities Festival

October 19, 2019 @ 1:00 PM - 6:00 PM


Listen up to Tell Us How You Really Feel, at the Bureau of General Services – Queer Division, at the 2019 New Masculinities Festival.


Creator Remy Ramirez writes: “The Tell Us How You Really Feel Project was born out of a deep frustration in my search for meaningful connections with men. After years of dating, I couldn’t understand who men were, why they behaved the way they did, or if they actually loved women. So I went out into the world and interviewed 25 cisgender, heterosexual men of varying ethnicities, ages, and relationship statuses, asking nearly 40 questions, like: What does loneliness look like to you and how often do you experience it?; What does vulnerability mean to you?; Have you ever fantasized about falling in love, having children, or getting married? This project is the collection of those responses.”

The Bureau offers a special listening station for a curated set of Remy’s interviews, during the 2019 New Masculinities Festival. Also on display find a curated selection of books and zines interrogating masculinity.

Learn more and get your festival tickets here.

No ticket required to visit Remy Ramirez’s listening station inside the Bureau (room 210 of The LGBT Community Center).

See the full lineup of performances at

Illustration: Azmi Mert Erdem and Michael Wilson

The 2019 New Masculinities Festival is produced by Man Question and The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center
With the Bureau of General Services–Queer Division



October 19, 2019
1:00 PM - 6:00 PM


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